My story,
briefly.
“Only what brings joy.”
For twenty-five years, I stood up for ordinary working people as a California plaintiff’s employment lawyer. Two habits stayed with me: read the fine print, and slow down when something feels off.
I’ve also always loved new tools. In the 1990s, I helped build one of California state government’s first websites. Decades later, after cancer led me to close my law practice, I gave my next chapter one rule: only what brings joy.
Artificial intelligence (AI) became part of that joy. Now, through AI Made Simple for Seniors and this companion website, I share ways to stay curious, spot the pitfalls, and make everyday life a little easier—and more fun.
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The standards this site keeps
- Peer to peer, always. You will never read “it’s easy” here. Some of this takes practice; you have practiced harder things.
- Sources and honesty. When I recommend a tool, I say why and what its trade-offs are. When something is my opinion, it’s labeled as one. When AI itself is unreliable, I say so — often.
- Privacy respected. No tool on this site sends or stores what you type into it. The email list exists to send you useful things, not to sell you.
- Clear boundaries. This site offers education, never legal, medical, or financial advice. I’m a retired lawyer, not your lawyer. Decisions about your health, money, and legal affairs belong with you and licensed professionals who know your situation.
- Accessibility is personal to me. In my law practice, I represented people facing disability discrimination and seeking workplace accommodations. I saw how much it matters to be able to participate fully, with dignity. I bring that commitment here through adjustable text, read-aloud options, and pages designed for printing. Details on the Accessibility page.
- AI limitations, stated plainly. AI-assisted drafts on this site are reviewed, edited, and owned by me. If it doesn’t sound like me, it doesn’t ship.
A few true things about me
- Recovering fine-print reader
- Cancer survivor
- Drone pilot
- Scuba diver
- Music lover
- Gardener
- Hiker
- Old-movie devotee
- Attended seminary
- Avid reader
- Writer
- Cook (second-best in the house)
- AI explorer, daily
“I only do things that bring me joy. After everything, that is enough. That is everything.”
“Your question is not stupid. Your caution is wisdom. Your life experience is an asset. Everything on this site is built on those three sentences.” — Gay
And don’t just take my word for any of it — the Reader Stories page collects what people like you have actually built with these tools. The best proof isn’t an expert; it’s your neighbor.
Trusted places to keep learning
This site doesn’t try to replace the good organizations already serving our generation — it helps you use them well.
Senior Planet
Free structured classes, in person and online, plus a national technology help hotline: 1‑888‑713‑3495 (weekdays 9–8, Saturdays 9–2 Eastern; English, Spanish, and Mandarin). Gay’s take: the most established place for step-by-step courses — I often point people here first for classes.
Cyber-Seniors
One-on-one help from trained young mentors, by phone or video — free. Gay’s take: the intergenerational piece is powerful — it removes the embarrassment and builds real relationships.
Your library & your state’s Medicare counselors
Most public libraries offer free technology help — walk up to the reference desk and ask. And every state has free, unbiased Medicare counselors through State Health Insurance Assistance Program (SHIP) (each state gives it its own local name, which is why nobody’s heard of it). Gay’s take: free, human, and local — the trustworthy answer to Medicare questions and Medicare scams.
Contact: Questions, article ideas, or a scam you’d like decoded? Write through the form on the email list — I read every message.